Haylin -
As somebody that's a tad older than you, but a lot less mature. I probably can’t give you much advice ;). Although, I do think your brain is wise beyond-your-years while your spirit is trailing far behind. In your journey, you’ve probably found the two types of supporters in your life: 1) People who support Haylin; and, 2) People who support Haylin's ambitions. They may seem like the same, but they're not. People that support Haylin will always ask how YOU are doing first - that's their primary concern (Haylin - the person). People that support Haylin's ambitions will always be more interested in your business and career progression over how you (the person) are doing. You deserve to surround yourself with people that fall into category #1, because those people will inherently always support your ambitions, it just won't be their primary concern.
Life is funny - things happen and you don't always end up where you envision going nor will your journey be a continuum without speed bumps. I think you have an incredible disposition and maturity-level to understand that. I hope what you've found in your awe-inspiring expertise is an appreciation for not only the smooth parts of the journey, but the rough ‘back roads’ too - I know you have - it’s the grit I so admire.
People don't give up on you when you've been through something traumatic, but they do 'expose' themselves. And sometimes in the best-of-ways that makes you scream “Why didn’t I meet this person until now?”
I’ve realized one thing: I probably was not ready nor worthy to meet YOU until NOW - lightning doesn’t strike twice.
I feel so lucky whether it happened at 22 or 42 - because…it happened. You are an amazing person who inspires me every day to be a bit more gritty, dare to dream a little bigger, and admire you from up-close and afar. I will forever love you, Haylin - and in so many ways, I’m glad Haylin came into my life at 42.
"Unexpected romance is the best kind. Unexpected conversations with gorgeous souls are priceless. It's funny how someone who you didn't know last year means so much now…life blesses us with so much but it’s up to each of us to understand what’s worth holding onto. You, my dear…are.